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Posted By Annie Gabillet on Apr 17, 2013 at 1:52PM

How not to pick up chicks on Facebook

Posted By Bettye Wayne on Dec 12, 2011 at 12:41PM


This is why I love Facebook. Listen to this stupid stuff this guy is updating:

I need chick that got swag comin out her overies

Doing it right tell the bitch lay it down or she gets to hear the sound bang

99 problems but a bitch ain't one S.O.G

Hit the heisman on that hoes

There a sign above my dick that's bad bitches only

Looking for that woman to want to make me change my relationship status

This is the sensitive guy who says he wants to take care of me and is ready for commitment? I think I'll pass... thank you Facebook.


Hitting on my Pharmacist?

Posted By Bettye Wayne on Oct 19, 2011 at 12:32PM


I have the hugest crush ever on my pharmacist. And I was wondering... is it inappropriate to hit on your pharmacist, the same way it's inappropriate to hit on your doctor?


If it makes a difference, he's close to my age and he's friendly borderline-flirty with me. I think he might have a crush on me too... and he already knows I'm on the pill.


A Bitch

Posted By chaamoreyy bob on Sep 20, 2011 at 7:15AM

Sometimes, theres a need fr me to erased a memory. A devil who once an angel. I've stepped on a shit that happened once long time ago and I have people coming tapping on my shoulder to looked back, again. No, this time round, I have made myself clear. I have made a mistake hoping fr you, but uh-nahnah, NOT ANYMORE. Thought you have change my dear friend but you're self-centered girl I've known, an only child who thinks this world is hers. All those sayings, from my friends, yeaa which I can trust right now, didnt affect me at all. But it does impact on me cuz you, Fatin Aqilah Binte Tamrin, is a douche bag under the blanket. Criticize me. Its not gonna make me fall. Its just you're jealous fr who I am with, for who I was. Dont be a judgemental girl, you know, everyone hates it. In a good way perhaps, but you deliver it in a bad way. Why must you share with others, if you have the guts to face me. I stand strong cuz I'm right and did no wrong. Its unacceptable and disrespectful to bitch about me when you don't know me well at all. You wanna know how does it feel to know all the truths behind your tiny eyes? Well, lets play it slow. You disliked the crowd, you dont deserve to be in it. You don't deserve to have a loyal friend who will grant your wishes, to all your importance and shitz.  Am hoping not to see your face again. Not in my life. Im not a cruel friend, but would just wanna advice, if we ever meet again, I am not gonna be the same. Keep that in mind.

Posted By Judy Lynn on Aug 21, 2011 at 9:43AM

Hello Ladies,

This is my first time to post, I am in the process of a divorce we have been separated for three years ( 3rd marriage ) so I am OK emotionally. I raised a granddaughter who is starting college on August 29Th, My age is 55 and for the first time in my life I am living alone and I LOVE it. I was afraid at first of being alone but I am only alone if I choose to be, I have a wonderful family and great friends to share my life with. I consider myself to be truely blessed and I am happy to be a part of this group.


Judy Lynn

Where's the NICE guys AT?!

Posted By Tawny Partida on Jul 13, 2011 at 11:56AM

A nice guy is like finding a needle in a hey stack! I think I have" A-hole wanted" tattooed  on my forehead :-( I know that the media says "nice guys finish last" but man! what do I have to do to get that decent, honest, genuwine, and wholesome nice guy...I'd give my right arm lol. Seriously I have the worst luck ever! I am not easy to take to bed and definitely a challenge to get, but even that don't work at times it's no problem to get a guy, but keeping one is hard for me it seems they only want to have sex right away, and not actually get to know me first I mean who desn't like to have sex? but come on! it takes a few dates or months right if you don't want to be portrayed as a hoe, slut, easy, and you want the guy to take you serious. I am the one that stops calling or talking to them period, because I don't see it going anywhere. When they start talking dirty or too forward its like MAN!! really?!! Geeez!

What can I do to find this NICE decent guy? and where are they? do they even exsist? should I put an ad in the news paper? lol help!


Drowning with A-holes!

A different kind of way to propose to your girlfriend

Posted By andalang on Jul 11, 2011 at 1:25PM

Very clever way to propose - good thing for her he didn't die in the process ...



Posted By Makethiseasy on Jun 25, 2011 at 8:25PM
You just get me out of control.

Not a Sure Thing

Posted By Bettye Wayne on May 24, 2011 at 12:50PM

I just want to vent my frustration on this. Like most onsugar users, I'm confident, independent, and not desperate. I will also admit I'm a bit of a commitmentphobe. I like to date but never go into a date with any expectations of a future relationship- I like to get to know a guy real well before I make that decision.


Which is why is frustrates me when a guy goes into a date with expectations- I will use my date from Friday night as an example. And I even hesitate to call it a 'date,' I met him and his roommate for drinks. Leaving his roommate behind, we then go to his uncle's house to chill for a bit- which is fine, I'm a friendly person and I've introduced friends to my family before. But then- he starts telling sentimental 'our history' stories of how we met, and the exact details of our convo the first  time I gave him my number- which I barely even remembered until he said it.


So we leave, and meet up with a couple of his girl-friends for pizza. We females all hit it off, and being the partying type we all piled in their car after finishing our pizza to smoke a blunt. He asks me if I'll call him again- weird but I say yes, I was having a fine enough time but still not fine enough to commit to anything. So getting out of the car he tells them, "Hey get used to this one, she'll be sticking around." And his girl-friends were perceptive enough to offer a brief, awkward silence in response to that.


So first off, I haven't even decided if I'll be sticking around or not. Second, what the hell does "this one" mean? As in, you've been rejected by how many women, and I'm the only one stupid enough to stick around? Thanks but no thanks.


It makes me so damn mad. Just because I agree to go out with you, doesn't mean I'm a sure thing. Doesn't mean I'm sticking around. Doesn't give a man any right- I mean any right whatsoever- to have expectations of me. And for the record- this one is not sticking around.

When should I tell the dude that I'm moving?

Posted By ShanC on May 24, 2011 at 8:30AM

I'm moving at the end of the summer to another city 8 hours away. I want to keep things casual this summer because of this and because I really don't want a serious relationship right now. I'm meeting guys online and am not sure if I should be up front about moving or wait to tell them. What do you guys think?

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